Catch Your Cheating Husband
Make a note of anything that you find which may be at all incriminating. You will not be able to remember everything you find, as you are under more than a stress already. Keeping large amounts of information in your mind is a difficult task at the best of times.
It is important that you keep track of all suspicious activities, note down the dates and times. For example does your husband regularly go to the gym? When he gets home check to see if his towel is wet -in other words has he had a shower. It will be easier for you to track patterns in his behaviour if you have all of this on paper.
Always pay close attention to everything your husband says or does. You may have noticed a strange behavior one day but you’re not really sure if he has done it before, if you write it all down you will be 100% confident that he has changed some crucial habit, or created a new one.
Set your own boundaries on how far you want to pry into your husbands private life. Some women believe certain boundaries are not to be crossed, but you must do whatever is comfortable for you, and remember that often the end will justify the means.
One very important thing to keep an eye on is your phone bill, if you start noticing numbers that you do not recognize you should be very wary of what your partner is up to. All too often the simple mistake of calling their new girlfriend/boyfriend is what catches them out in the end.
At some point you will come across physical evidence that clearly points to your husband’s infidelity, make note of exactly where and how you found it. Afterwards make sure that you don’t leave any evidence behind, do not take originals of any paperwork, always make copies. You should not arouse any suspicions until you’re ready to confront your husband. All the evidence you find should be kept in a safe place.
When you feel you have accumulated enough evidence and are ready to confront him, plan it properly! Have your questions and accusations ready, if necessary make notes so that you will not lose track. It is very important that you have a watertight case at this stage, do not confront him until you are confident in your investigations. This will be a very emotional time and he will lie to the bitter end. You need to be strong and you need to be prepared.
Remember to always follow your intuition, it will lead you to the truth eventually.
